Comments for LeftyByDefault.com - Laura Overstreet

Comment on Synthesis by Debbie Newman

Debbie Newman — Mon, 23 Jan 2012 06:24:42 +0000

Loss always seems to bring truth. Synthesizing it is our work. Having the courage to stick with it through all the twists and turns is not for the faint of heart…and yet…there is usually treasure to be found along the way. Thanks for sharing your journey of synthesis here.

Comment on Sometimes you need a little help, sometimes you’re tired by Laura

Laura — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 21:38:38 +0000

Shirley, welcome! I am glad to have you here at whatever time you find me and my little corner of the internet.

This is a common struggle. You are not alone and it is okay. Remember that. We all get tired of asking and explaining and fighting the issues we have with asking for help. Hang in there and rest well.

Comment on Sometimes you need a little help, sometimes you’re tired by Shirley

Shirley — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 21:19:30 +0000

I come to this almost a year after it was written and I am saddened that I hadn’t read it before. Thank you for articulating my struggle so well!

I have MS. My biggest challenge is fatigue and I use a wheelchair for long distances and long days. What this means is that most people see me walking with a cane, but otherwise apparently doing just fine. I have become so accomplished at ‘putting on a good front’ that people don’t realize I need help sometimes and I have yet to let go of my issues with asking for help.

Today, I am tired too. I am tired of asking the same people for the same help and having to explain why I need it over and over. So, I’m going to do as I usually do, retreat for a while and rest. Tomorrow I may have more strength to face the frustrations.

Your post (and blog in general) is just what I needed. I am not alone and it’s OK. Thanks!

Comment on Synthesis by Trisha

Trisha — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 16:22:58 +0000

I was very moved by this writing and I know where I fit into the history. Keep the posts coming!

Comment on Twenty/20 by Laura

Laura — Sun, 26 Jun 2011 00:21:40 +0000

Thank you, Caroline, and thanks for visiting! That’s one of my favorite parts as well. We are both doing good work.

Comment on Twenty/20 by Caroline McGraw / A Wish Come Clear

Caroline McGraw / A Wish Come Clear — Sun, 26 Jun 2011 00:04:22 +0000

Laura, what a brave post. I especially loved the line, “I know what twenty years means to me. Twenty years of self-discovery, battles, fears, joy, embraces, incredibly significant people, and love.”
There’s such conviction + strength in it, and also, in you.

Comment on Interview with bestselling author Rachel Simon by Debbie Newman

Debbie Newman — Wed, 18 May 2011 20:34:16 +0000

Just finished reading this book last night – excellent! I’ve been working on expanding my disability perspective, something I didn’t realize was not more developed. Your site, Rachel’s writing, Alida’s, and many others are serving to inform and guide my education. Thanks for all the information and insights shared here!

Comment on Regurgitation by Laura

Laura — Wed, 20 Apr 2011 02:19:21 +0000

Thank you so much, Shari. It is wonderful to see you here! I am sorry to hear of Andy’s passing. I remember how much you said he meant to you and Josh. This blog is for all of us.

Comment on Regurgitation by Shari

Shari — Wed, 20 Apr 2011 00:55:58 +0000

Laura: I cannot tell you how much this post meant to me. My dear friend Andy passed away recently, and this was the side of him he never showed to any of us. Not his friends, his brothers, his parents. This is a beautiful post, absolutely beautiful and powerful and true. You are one of the bravest women I know…you are the voice for many.

Comment on Regurgitation by Laura

Laura — Wed, 20 Apr 2011 00:04:07 +0000

Oh, my Favorite Relative, I love you, too, and you have always been so amazing. Thank you!!!